How peace and harmony was restored in a beautiful household with the use of the Bach Flower remedies!
Back in December 2021 I watched a short “live” from a woman who I knew vaguely through networking, this lady was desperate for help and had nowhere to turn. She was exhausted, miserable and at the end of her tether.
Our initial meeting – what was wrong!
I sent her message and waited, and the reply was almost immediate. We arranged to talk the next day – it was between Christmas and New Year, I had very little on due to the Christmas break.
This lady’s house was in total turmoil due to the disruptive behaviour of her eldest child, so we had two scenarios to look at. How we could help the little boy and how we could help Mum to feel better and stronger to deal with her son.
The little boy had a difficult early few months in life and mum also had Post-natal depression which was mainly undiagnosed. This left her feeling as if the bond wasn’t strong enough, also her second baby arrived within 18 months of the first, and that wasn’t easy either.
The eldest was quite angry and jealous and incredibly feisty, very difficult with food and mealtimes became a battlefield. All very painful especially when mum works with food, diet and nutrition. How could we restore the harmony and love in here!
What did we do to help?
For the little boy, we provided the beautiful Star of Bethlehem for the trauma for birth, Holly for the anger and obvious jealousy that he had for his younger brother, Sweet Chestnut for his internal and mental pain he was in a real pickle inside, Elm for the total overwhelm that he would feel on many occasions during the day, surprisingly we looked at Larch to help improve his willingness to try to move forward and look at trying different foods at mealtimes, and to free him from his sorry. The other beautiful remedy was Impatiens – for his frustration and impatience both with himself and with the family.
These were all provided with the Glycerine based remedies that Dr Bach provides – these contain no alcohol.
For mum, we looked to help and support, Star of Bethlehem for the trauma, Gorse for her despair and despondency, Cherry Plum for the loss of control of emotions – her thoughts were out of control totally, Sweet Chestnut to help ease her mental sorrow, Pine for her guilt – she blamed herself for what was happening, Impatiens for her frustration as to not being able to help her son and sort the problems out herself. Oak for her exhaustion – this was key as she truly didn’t know where to go first.
And what happened ….
The change in the little boy was beautiful – we worked through the next 3 months, and he changed almost immediately but we eased him through his worries adjusting the remedies to suit and he is now a placid and well managed little boy – his fears and jealousy have gone and peace has been restored to the household.
Mum also has a beaming smile on her face as her house is now a harmonious place, naturally there will always be the odd squabble but the house is filled with laughter and fun, Mum is no longer tired and crying with despair, she too has had the remedies for 4 months to allow her to resolve her inner thoughts and concerns from the past, however life is no longer a struggle it comes with comparative ease.
The family is happy and looking to the future with beautiful thoughts, progressing children, Mum able to work in her own business and Dad is not arriving home to devastation and horror, it’s a peaceful and happy household and everyone is reaping the rewards from this.
It is possible to bring harmony back to the home.
If you are struggling with household trauma and concerns then please let me know and lets have a chat to see how we can help and talk about the problems – before it’s too late. The remedies work to support and help you and your children.
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