That sense of despair and despondency – how to deal with it!

Over the past few months, I have had several clients come to me full of utter hopelessness, I had one dear lady just sit and cry for about 20 minutes, she felt totally worthless and as if nothing she was doing would succeed or work and as if she may as well give up.

I prescribe this remedy a lot, often comes with situations which are upsetting and causing a huge amount of distress, it is helpful with scenarios of huge gravity, maybe burnout, grief, menopause, suicidal thoughts, extreme depression.

The true Gorse state.

Sadly, life is not easy, and we do have struggles, and some are worse than others.  Dr Bach saw this and thankfully found a solution in the remedy Gorse, the bright yellow flower that can be seen in the darkest and dullest of days on the moors and highlands – the flower to bring us light.

The aim of the gorse remedy is to alleviate the gravity of the depressing thoughts to relieve you of a huge amount of stress and anxiety.  The strongest change you will experience is that you will feel better the load will feel light and much nicer, you will feel more relaxed.

When you are feeling like giving up and that there is nothing else you can do, what you need is a little push and pull to get you out of this state.  A friend may offer some solutions and you may find yourself agreeing with them and say that you will try them, but at these times people are often so low they need total support to get them out.

gorse yellow flowers

The negative Gorse state is the total sense of pessimism where you can see no indication of a way out from your situation, you have become resigned to it and no longer have the energy to try.

If you have been chronically ill for some time and have just come to terms with your illness, then Gorse is a fabulous remedy to give you the fight to feel better again.

Gorse is needed when nothing in your life holds any hope, and you are totally resigned to this life of inability and no longer have any desire to change.

These are very sad and desperate statements, but many people have these feelings, they may have worked hard at a business or relationship, put everything into it and despite everything it may have failed – they may be left with these feelings.

How Gorse can change you

Dr Bach said that when he saw people in need of Gorse “they look as if they need the sunshine in their lives to drive the clouds away”, this ums up the plant Gorse.

The aim of the gorse remedy is to alleviate the gravity of the depressing thoughts to relieve you of a huge amount of stress and anxiety.  The strongest change you will experience is that you will feel better the load will feel light and much nicer, you will feel more relaxed.

This is exactly what it does, it enables you to become resilient, to grow after the adversity, to rediscover your inner strengths and hope. Taking Gorse will leave you with complete conviction of success and happiness and a new positive look on life.

If you can imagine the gorse plant, mostly found in the wild in fairly wild and remote places, in bleak surroundings the Gorse remedy is a beacon of light and wonder.  The remedy creates an air of confidence and relief and a huge amount of happiness in times when things have been very bleak.

The positive Gorse

You will see the positive opportunities that life has to offer, and you will find the inspiration to also be the bearer of kindness and hope and positivity to others.

It is a beautiful and kind and wonderful remedy – if you have any of the feelings above and would like some help then it would be good to chat

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